[update] This was back in April 2014. I had been going through some messy stuff for years up to that. It’s now 2018. Making the shift of life and work and career has given time to heal. It’s so hard to escape the depths when you’re there. Having people you can genuinely trust is a huge help. I don’t think the Me from then, could even imagine the Me from now. I’m happy to update, the me and he from then are married now. He’s still a ‘good’ guy and I’m doing worlds better 🙂
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I’ve had a few stresses and tensions that I seem to be stuck with. It’s not fun.
It’s difficult for the partners of someone like this to know what to do in these moments. Something happened recently that helped me. I wanted to share it, maybe it’ll help someone else.